Birthing Baby: One Guy's Somewhat Screwed-Up Perspective Part 1 of n
So, I have witnessed two births in the last 5 months, and thought I'd share my views. First off, a few qualifiers: I am not a doctor. I don't even play one on TV. I've seen two births, and these are my opinions. Both births I've seen were hospital births, and in fact were in the same hospital. By pure luck one in room 205, the other in 204. That said, exactly how you decide to give birth is really a series of choices, some yours, some not. Each of these can be broken into major categories, and just by name it turns out folks can be judgmental about it. "Natural Child Birth" automatically implies that any other option is "unnatural." This seems to apply to every major and minor choice you will make: home or hospital, "natural" or medicated, vaginal or Cesarian. All I can say, having helped a friend through this process, and now having gone through it with my wife, is that no one is allowed to judge the choices you make but you. An